when we are meditating, there is no wonder staying calm.
staying calm in the amid of chaos is really a wonder.
Backtrack linux’s tagline: “the quieter you become, the more you can hear”
Taking a fight or talking rude doesn’t cost monetarily but definitely in other ways it will affect (like taking your mood off, relations).
After some-days we will laugh at the situations we angered.
and staying calm always also doesn’t solve issues.
Even Gandhiji didn’t say* what to do if someone slaps on our second cheek too. He left for us to decide.
So when to be calm and when to reciprocate?
may be it comes by experience 🙂 and this is where our intelligent and dumb parts of the body come into play(brain and heart) – combined called wisdom.
* if someone slaps you turn the other cheek